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Anonymous asked: Help. I hurt, I can't carry on. I'm done.

Yes you can. I know it’s hard, but try. Things will get better.

Anonymous asked: I'm at the end of my tether. The anti-depressants don't help and the counselling service is taking too long to get back to me. My family don't miss me while I'm away, and my friends couldn't care less. No-one noticed the marks on my wrist. I'm done. I'm really done.

If you can’t get a counseller, try talking to someone you trust. Or just try and talk to your friends about how you’re feeling and if they don’t care then I’m sorry to say they probably aren’t friend material. I know what it feels like when people don’t notice something is wrong, but that doesn’t mean you should cut more to make people notice it. Try to stop cuttibg, and then find someone to talk to. 

Don’t worry or lose hope ok? Things will get better, I promise.

Anonymous asked: I was diagnosed with depression a few weeks ago & have been taking anti-depressants since and I have no idea how to tell my family. I've applied for counselling but I haven't been able to get an appt yet. Last night, while admittedly drunk, I cut myself. My flatmates found out and now I'm worried what they think of me even if they were supportive. I feel stupid for doing it. It didn't help and now I've probably scared myself. I feel like such a failure, I give others advice but can't help myself

I know it’s hard to tell your family about that kind stuff, but you really have to. If you don’t tell people close to you, you can end up feeling alone and having no one to talk to. It’s good that you contacted a counseller, even if you haven’t heard from them yet, ‘cause it’s important to talk to people about it. You shouldn’t beat yourself up about cutting, now that it’s done the best thing you can do is try not to do it again. If your flatmates were supportive of you then I don’t think you have anything to worry about, it’s great that they were supportive in the first place and you should be happy about that. So instead og worrying and thinking negative thoughts, talk to people about it, that always helps. :)

Stay strong xx

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